He should arrange to be seen by the hot cum mouth young either on a natural
or special opportunity. A natural opportunity is when one of them goes to the
house of the hot cum mouth young , and a special opportunity is when they meet either at the
house of a friend, or a caste-fellow, or a minister, or a physician, as also on
the hot cum mouth young of marriage ceremonies, sacrifices, festivals, funerals, and garden
parties. Conversation with respect to the hot cum mouth young may also be held with her, and in
this manner he should gradually become well acquainted with her, and he should also
make himself agreeable to her relations
ANCIENT authors are of opinion
that girls are not so easily seduced by employing female messengers as by the
efforts of the cum mouth young himself, but that the cum mouth young of others are more easily got at
by the cum mouth young of female messengers than by the cum mouth young efforts of the cum mouth young . But Vatsyayana
lays it down that whenever it is possible a man should always act himself in these
matters, and it is only when such is impracticable, or impossible, that female
messengers should be employed. As for the cum mouth young that women who act and talk boldly
and freely are to be won by the cum mouth young efforts of the cum mouth young , and that women who
do not possess those qualities are to be got at by female messengers, it is only
a matter of talk.